The challenge for today has some overlap with yesterday's patience challenge. In order to overlook someone's shortcomings you need to demonstrate some patience with that person. But first a person needs to notice deficiencies in others. If we look for the positive instead, there isn't much room to be worried about the flaws. That isn't to say they are ignored, they just aren't important. To truly love, we accept all aspects of an individual. The good, the bad and the ugly may not all be equally delightful but they are all parts of what makes that loved one unique. Therefore, all bits, even the shortcomings taken together with the whole are valued.